Ian is very reserved, a bit of an introvert. It takes a while for him to open up to people. It took me a while to accept this fact. I had to work hard for Ian’s affection when he was smaller and I’ll be honest…I thought the kid just didn’t like me. I wasn’t used to convincing people that I am worthy of their affection. I’m Shanita for goodness sake! My firstborn was the total opposite. Freely giving his time and attention and endearments to any Joe Blow within a 12 inch radius. But with Ian, there are very few individuals worthy of his affection. The good news is that once you’re in…you’re in. Here’s a picture of Ian and his brotha from anutha motha, Gavin. Ian loves this kid. He wishes that he was his brother (his words not mine). Here they are holding hands on the way to a friendly game of kickball. A boy and his best friend. Enjoy!